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Wouldn't that be so nice if the entire world would take part of our vision? I mean EVERYBODY starting World Changer Malls and supporting other Non Profits while becoming finacially free? Wouldn't that be great if children already get taught that in order to live a happy life they must be committed to helping others once they grow up and become adults? Just like we all have learned that we must maintain a job in order to feed our family it should be mandatory to teach children these days that they must also help others once they are released to the "adult part of todays Society"?
Our families number one Rule is that don't expect others to help you when you don't help others. As soon as you ask my son what our number one rule is that is exactly what he will tell you. I preached this to him every single day. It starts with small things like unloading the dishwasher and will never find an end, only expand to outside the house.
Last week he came home from school with this look in his eyes as he had done something wrong. When I asked him he started crying and told me he gave his sandwich bread to his classmate. Surprised as I was, I asked him why he was crying then which he replied that I had always told him that there are so many children in this world starving to death and if I ever were to catch him not eating his bread or throwing it away he would be in double-trouble. He said, that his classmate was very hungry and his mother had not fixed a lunch box for him so he gave him his bread.
My eyes lid up and I smiled and hugged him forever telling him he did everything right. He had not realized that he exactly did what I always wanted him to do: help others. My son was only worried because all he saw was that he did not eat his sandwich bread lol
Just the other day I sat down and tried to remember more of my child hood and I clearly remember how I always imagined that we live in a world with no poor people. I used to cry over this when I was little because I was worried I could not find a single spot in this world that would fit my dream and therefore I couldnt' ever find a place I could call my home one day. It's kind of weird how I thought as a child lol but I did and can't denie that I did!
To be honest I am worried I won't be able to reach the goal in this boot camp. I'm already having head aches thinking about this all day long. I know I MUST succeed, not for myself but more for the people around me, my family and friends. I am not only scared of rejection when approaching people personally, I am also already thinking a couple of steps ahead and am worried that those people who actually will sign up for the World Changer Mall will call me a fraud or scam if they do not experience the success for whatever reason or excuse they might have. I think this is my biggest fear, walking through my hometown and people will point at me saying that I "dragged" them in a home business and all they did was pay but never made a dime. Even though it might be their fault for not succeeding due to lack of interest, motivation or work but I know how humans are, always tend to blame others.
I am not giving up - no worries - I am just thinking until my head hurts and then I start thinking all over again lol, it's a mind game and I need to find my way out of this :(
I like this blog thing for some reason, now not only I know what I'm thinking the entire world knows, too lol
...be back for my next update :)
You are not alone in your fears...read Ed Brooks.
ReplyDeleteWe know you all are cabable and will succeed at this. I appreciate your honesty. Because of that, you are already a success. Keep plugging away at it. You will do wonderful. You are all learning a valuable lesson here. More that you realize. Thank you for doing this for us.
JoanneB
Gueler,
ReplyDeleteYou are doing a great job and those thoughts along with what you are instilling in your son (by the way I loved his story) is what is going to make a difference in this world. People like you will be able to make the change that is so desperately needed. - Jacki
Hi Gueler,
ReplyDeleteI am so proud of you! You are raising an amazing son. You are sharing your heart and fears, while also stating you're not going to give up. It's that kind of openness and vulnerability that will help so many people. We all feel fears. We all feel doubts. It's when we can express those and then show people how to move beyond them that we will truly help others.
I so understand your fears about bringing people into something and then wondering how they will feel if they don't succeed. Here's what I learned. I am only responsible for myself. I am responsible (because it is what I've been given to do) to create a vehicle for people to use to succeed. My Power Mall is that vehicle. I am NOT responsible for what people choose to do with it, or whether they have the courage and commitment to make their dreams come true.
Honey, some people will and some people won't. That's the truth. Some of the people you share this with will do nothing and, yes, they may point back at you because few people want to take responsibility for their own actions. That can not stop you from helping those who WILL drive this amazing vehicle you are offering. I promise you the joy that comes from helping those who WILL drive it far outweighs the other. :)
I believe in you!
Ginny